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How to Stop Obsessing About Your “Glory Days”

by | Mindfulness

“Ahh. the good ol’ days.” How often have we heard or uttered this familiar phrase? It can be a source of great pleasure and amusement to reminisce on a time when we were younger. remembering a special event or activity. We tend to look at our past experiences through a filter that magnifies the positive while diminishing the negative. While there’s no harm in basking in a memory. it can be harmful if you spend so much time looking at your past. that you neglect your present and future.
If you’re someone who spends too much time thinking about the “glory days” of your youth. you might think it’s because your life has become dull and monotonous. With the carefree days of your youth behind you. you might long to be back in that time period to escape your present. But if you take a closer look and examine your life. you may be surprised to notice that you look back not because your past was so great. but rather because your present is not. The more time you spend reminiscing. the worse your current life becomes. neglected by daydreaming of the past instead of imagining new heights to which you can aspire.

Get Rid of Unneeded Memorabilia

Sometimes a memento is a special memory of a special time. and sometimes it’s just an object that’s imprisoning you in your past. Getting rid of an excess of items associated with the past will help you stop living in days gone by, and free you to live in and enjoy the present.

Fully Appreciate Each Day

As Eleanor Roosevelt once said. “The purpose of life is to live it. to taste experience to the utmost. to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.” One way to stop living in the past is to enjoy and appreciate each day. Start keeping a journal and jot down three things you’re grateful for each day. Take a walk. or cook a special meal. Enjoy the sights. sounds and smells of every day.

Make Future Plans

Nothing can keep you from looking to the past quite like looking to the future. Plan a vacation or create a goal you want to reach in the near and distant future. Maybe you want to learn a new language. start playing the piano. or read all the classic novels. There’s a lot of life waiting to be lived. so make the most of it.
While there’s certainly nothing wrong with a moment of nostalgia. it’s important to live in the present. and spend your time enjoying your life as you live it. If you make the effort to create a better life for yourself today and in the future. you’ll not only bring yourself great happiness and satisfaction. but you’ll create many more memories to relish in the days to come.

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